Signs He Doesn’t Love You Anymore
February 11, 2009 by admin
Filed under Articles, Marriage & Divorce, Relationships and Parenting
Tell-Tale Signs That Your Husband Doesn’t Love You Any More
You, as a woman, must have realized that you can tell with amazing accuracy the feelings that your husband has towards you. This is the feminine intuition even though one may not be aware of it all appreciate its accuracy. A wife may feel about something being wrong in family life, though her husband may not have brought it up in an obvious way. He may appear distant, and this may start ringing alarm bells in his wife.
A very typical way that your husband might use to express his dissatisfaction with you is that he mentions it to you often enough times. When both of you first were wedded, he did not need to be reminded about expressing his love for you. Over time, you may have noticed, that the frequency of declarations of his love for you may have diminished. Then there might be a point in time where the rules are reversed and after you have expressed your love for him, he may return the compliment. This is a warning signal that he is becoming emotionally detached from you.
Then there is the aspect of how much time your husband is willing to spend with you. This will provide a sure-shot indication of his attraction for you. You may notice that he is lately spending more time on other pursuits like watching television, working on his computer etc. This is an indication that he does not love you any more and you should watch out for this kind of demeanor. Keep monitoring how much time he is really spending with you and you will get to know if your marriage is heading for a rough ending.
It is not only how much time your husband is spending with you but also how much intimacy you are having with him during those times. You should notice if he exhibits the same type of desire for physical intimacy and intercourse with you during those intimate moments. It is a fact that if a man loses love and attraction for his spouse, he will also lose the desire to be united with his wife sexually. Though there have been accusations of women losing sexual desire after some time has passed on since their marriage, men can be held responsible for such an attitude as well. Hence, if you notice that your husband no longer desires you physically, immediately the first thing comes into your mind is that he does not really want you any more.
Okay, so there are a few that sounds like me. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now, and for the most part we are extrememly happy. But there’s just one thing…somethings been bothering me, and I’m not sure what it is. I’m always doing something wrong lately, and I’m always “acting” different. But when I tell him that maybe its just him, he say no. What can I possibly be doing so wrong. I’ve given up so much for him. I have no guy friends, because he’s jealous, and I don’t talk to anyone. I have to make my plans around him. And he gets mad at me for doing things he’ll do. Its ridiculous. He’s never happy anymore, and sometimes he’ll be happy, but it won’t last long. Its just getting so frustrating, because I just don’t know what to do anymore. Its like there isn’t anything I can do. I wanna make things right with him, but there’s no way to make him happy. I have severe migraines everyday, and I’m not sure if its from him or not… I’m just so lost, and I have no friends to talk to. Any advice?
Hi, everyone im facing the same problems, i’ve been dealing with this guy on and off for a while not physical but verbal ,because something in my heart told me that he wasnt the right choice and to wait it out,but last yr of 09 i decided that i should just let my guard down and give him a try even though i heard some pretty disturbing things about him, i had to find out for myself if the rumors were true ,and they were so i feel like a brung it on myself but hey we all learn , we talked for a while on the phone through textes and even had personal visit,i started to catch deep feelings for him and decided i wanted to give him my virginity, we were so good for a couple months and then out of no where he begin to change less contact, verbal abuse, disrespect you name it, i begged and pleaded and told him that i love him more then the world and that we had to make it worked but i think that only excited him even more, i texted and called and have gotten ignored and forwarded to the machine mutiple times and then i realized i had to pickup and go i couldnt take the hurt and i couldnt stomach the pain i cried lost sleep lost weight loss hair loss interest basically i lost everything and it turns out to have been the biggest mistake in my life , i finally found the strength outta no where and left him alone, he still calls occassinally or pops up and we still have sex with sometimes but i withdraw all my emotions because at the time i want to be alone but i still have those needs, anyway its said that he has a girlfriend i dont no if it was b4 during or after be but im finish with him now all i need is a new play mate and he’s gone forever